| What's Going On? |
There are
59
guests on-line
|
|
|
|
|
|
Female Help,,, are you surprised??
I'm just curious... Why is it, that i meet a girl, and it goes really well, and she's really into me, and they even start saying shit like "I don't wanna screw this up" and "I'm affraid i'll scare you off" (that was from the last one, she was affraid to say how much she was falling for me so fast cause she thought it would scare me off), and shit like that, then all of a sudden, literally out of nowhere their like "Ahh, I don't know if i'm ready for this" or "We should slow things down a little" (That was 2 girls ago, and fuck, trust me, it was going SLOW as fuck already, SO SLOW!! I was with her for almost a month and i never even fucked the girl).
Like, do girls only like guys who are insanely nice to them for what like 2-3 weeks? Am i just boosting their confidence with compliments and then they wanna go back to the assholes?? Should i start being very cold and emotionless with girls i meet now? Will they like that better? Or is it that i just keep meeting girls that are fucked up and have insane issues??
What do you girls think??? Cause it's really getting to me, like i'm an attractive guy and i'm really nice to girls i'm with and treat them very well,,, i just can't figure out where it goes wrong all of a sudden??? | | Reply » Female Help,,, are you surprised?? |
Bro...i go through the same thing with women. The answer is probably somewhere in between: Its part you, and part them. You may indeed be selecting the wrong women, women that are "emotionally unavailable", women that are still in a relationship, at least mentally, thus you are the rebound? Don't beat yourself up, but do take an honest, strong look at yourself to see where you are at fault and what you can/could do different. The easiest thing in the world to do is to blame others..."chicks are all nuts"...which may not actually be the truth. Good luck Bro!
| | Reply » Female Help,,, are you surprised?? |
see it's hard to say, cause one girl didn't date anyone for a year until me,,, i think she just wasn't ready for a relationship because she was too used to the single life and couldn't handle it right now. One i broke up with like 2 days ago, i think it was sort of a rebound, and she knows she's not gettin back with that guy, we both know it. But she's definatly got feelings for me but i just don't know if she thinks now is the right time (i sort of agree with it because of the situation though)... thing is,,, it's fucked cause the girls say all these things, and everything seems great, then all of a sudden its over,,,, and the confusion sets in.
| | Reply » Female Help,,, are you surprised?? |
Quote:
Oh, that was a good post Spartie! Well said.
| | Reply » Female Help,,, are you surprised?? |
Hang in there bigbuffstaples, you'll meet the right one. 
| | Reply » Female Help,,, are you surprised?? |
You could be moving too fast for them. I've made the same mistake in my life. Girls pay lots of attention to our actions. I'd say move at a more relaxed casual pace regardless of how you feel about her. Be busy with your life and allow her to call and put out there how much she wants to see you. It sounds like they're saying "slow down boy"
| |
Page 1 of 3 | 1 2 3
|
|
|
|
Menu
Female Help,,, are you surprised??