you can't tell me that no one here can help me??? I did a search but all the post are very old so I thought maybe someon ehas tried something recently.

huh, this is probably stupid advise but give you a small shot of test, and she'll turn very horny. or any mild AAS. but i know some female here has better advise for uping the horny-meter without AAS, i think. personally it all works on me.

chichy

I'm gonna buck the trend for the "magic pill" you're looking for and ask what is going on. She's a new Momma. So two years ago at least. Is it possible just the daily grind of being a new Momma and raising a child is what's affecting your sex life?

We can't all be the porn stars we were when we first met ya know. It's a two way street. Hard to feel sexy when you have spit up or vomit head to toe.

Try asking her (unconfrontationally) what would make it better.

Give the woman some Romance and a stress free day and I bet she will get back into the mood.

thanks everybody, You wouldn't believe me if I told you all the things I do to try to make it better. She gets the free days were I take the kids & she does her thing. She gets flowers, gifts etc on a weekly basis. She gets foot rubs, back rubs etc. on a regular basis, I always tell what awonderful mother & wife she is! We have been together for 5 years we are best friends she says it's not me. Part of it is the new baby and other things but she says she would just like to want it more often. SShe loves the sex we do have, she just doesn't desire it like she used to. She's in her prime 33 she shouldn't feel like that. She knows I'm asking. She doesn't want to go with aas to help, natural & from someone who has tried what they recommend. thanks everyone