please bear with the long post!

-background- My girlfriend and myself have been together for three years. When we got together she was a virgin and had really never messed around with anybody else, besides a little touching. It kinda worried me b/c she is goergous and didn't understand it. I've been friends with her for 8yrs now so I know her past quite well. About 3-4months into the relationship we started having sex and everything was GREAT (for me at least) but, she just never really got into it and I could tell she was just doing it b/c she knew I wanted to.

-current/problem- She has still never really gets excited. She tells me she just has no desire. I have done everything I possibly can think of. We have the perfect relationship besides the lack of a sex life and I just can't handle it any more. We've had sex 6-8 times since Valentines Day and I just don't want to give up on her/the relationship.

-question- I've been reading on numerous boards about different pills/cremes/blah blah that enhance a females libido but just don't know what to pick. Is there anything you lady's would suggest from experience? I've seen where a doc has recommended 25mg of DHEA a day. Seen people recommend using pro.cremes. Even some talking about anavar or other "steroids." I'm sure its a hormone inbalance but would like to try something before heading straight to the doc. I hate making her feel like she a "failure" as a g/f even though its about to break this relationship up. All advance or suggestions would be greatly appreciated and thank you in advance.

IMO there is no such thing as a perfect relationship (girlfriend/wife) unless sex is involved. It's like saying "we had a perfect meal, except there was no food"

LOL eat her pussy more. if you give this chick more orgasm's she wanna fuck more.